30 October, 2006

Family outings

The Wednesday before Kacen was born we went bowling at Fat Cats in Provo with Alona's gift certificate that she got from her grandma. It had been a long day! waiting for comcast, getting paul's new pants going to Arby's for dinner, getting our haircut and then going bowling at 8:30 at night.
Alona wanted to bowl at both her and Abbi's turns. One of the turns she rolled her ball down and hit the rail that was in the middle of picking up pins because she was so eager. They had automatic bumpers, thank goodness! And cute, cute little bowling shoes! Abbi had fun she enjoyed getting the ball from the hole than rolling it, I think. There was a sort of bowling "helper" for children, all they had to do was put the ball up on the metal holder and push and it would hit the pins almost every time. Made them feel good! Abbi actually got a higher score than Alona, but that didn't matter they had so much fun.

A week ago Saturday while at Val and Ruth's before we went to Wal-Mart the girls got to color a pumpkin with marker. The girls had a lot of fun. Alona put eyes on her pumpkin and glasses and very long teeth. Grandpa also pushed them around in the wheel barrow, they liked that.

Andf then last night agter Paul working really hard..he mowed the lawn, changed the oil and did the dishes after we put stickers on the girls' pumpkins. He carved then them. They turned out great. He is an awesome pumpkin carver. Alona didn't want to touch the gooeys in the pumpkin but wanted to just take out the seeds and count them. So before tomorrow night we get to gut the pumpkins.

Precious Baby


Needed its own post. Too Cute!

Pictures finally!!

So here is where we moved to. This is the Kitchen on the left, the living room on the right.

We live only 1.4 miles from the mtc and provo temple. Provo is a little confusing and will take some time to get use to. Such as State Street being on 7th east on one side of town and then on 5th west on the other side of town.

Friday night Marta came over to help out! Yay!So much less stress, she watched the girls. It was nice I didn't have to worry about them while feeding the baby or doing other things ...like showering. She cleaned things that I wouldn't have been able to do in a million years. She brought them matching Dora pajamas, Abbi seemed just as excited or even more so than Alona. She kept repeating "Dora, Dora". And She brought cute winter coats for each of them too!
It was great to have help. Church was fun, first I had to take Kacen out to feed him and then I got to take Abbi out while she was kicking and screaming and kept doing so while I was outside of the chapel. I got some weird looks from people while trying to hold her. I was about to hear Alona sing in the primary program while I was in the mother's lounge. She was the last voice on every word and it was more like screaming than singing. It was so cute, I was so proud!
Kacen's stump fell off yesterday, his belly button looks a little strange so far. Hopefully it will start to look more normal.

Kacen's room
Girls' roomSleeping girls in their new room:
My Belly a week before "D" day:

23 October, 2006

Kacen

I was able to go and visit my extended family on Saturday. I took the girls down to Roy and we went out to lunch with my grandmother, aunts, uncle and cousins. We saw Val and Ruth next and they helped me with the car dilemma. Paul asked ME to balance the tires when I left him that day. Wal-Mart refused to do them where I was, even though I had life time balancing....they said that I had to go to the location that I purchased it from. So I went to Les Schwab and had it done for free. They found that the front right tire needed to be replaced and the front left had separation. So after getting the tires balanced the car drove worse than it did before hand. Now it was veering to the right and vibrating like no other. So after dinner at Val and Ruth's house they went with me to Wal-Mart and got them to replace the front right tire and they were convinced that there was nothing wrong with the other tire. Paul says there is something wrong with it. We changed the girls into pajamas in the wal-mart bathroom and brushed their teeth. Abbi and Alona got new trick-or-treat containers. Abbi got an Elmo bucket and Alona got a black cauldron.
After the tires were done we went outside. When I gave Val a hug I could feel a contraction coming on. I didn't think much of it...I got into the car and started our 80 mile ride home. The contractions continued all the way home. I called Marta while in the car and asked her if she could call Cottonwood Hospital and ask them which Doctor was on call. She replied that she was in the car and couldn't, she then asked if I was in labor. My reply, maybe. I also called Ruth and had her on standby, Paul called and told her that she could sleep a little after ten and then at one we woke her up again. I called Paul about 15 minutes before getting home and he met me there. Almost as soon as I got out of the car and started walking around the contractions stopped. I apologized to Paul for making him come home from work, I felt so stupid. Paul had said how having the baby this weekend would be great, he is supposed to start school again on the 30th and wouldn't be able to take off and stay home. So I decided that we would do something to start up the contractions again, and it worked!
So two hours after the contractions had started up again we headed for the hospital at midnight. I walked in to labor and delivery and to my surprise the doctor that was waiting there "catching up on Jennifer Anniston"(he was reading a magazine) was my O.B. What luck! I was not wanting to deliver on a weekend not knowing who was on call. I was at five centimeters, and they admitted me. Abbi wanted "up", she wanted me to hold her while I was sitting on the bed, it was cute. Ruth came and picked up the girls from the hospital at One a.m. they were both awake. Abbi had woken up before we left for the hospital and stayed awake even after getting to her grandma's house. I thought that it would be nice. Marta had watched Alona last time that I had a baby, so this time I thought that Ruth could watch them and Marta could come to the hospital if she wanted to. They had both volunteered to watch the girls and I never told them what I was doing, they both thought that they were watching them, oops! I thought that they would be happy.
About an hour and a half later I was at six centimeters. I knew that if I wanted this thing to progress I would have to have my water broken. I called my sister first to see if she was coming to the delivery room, and nope she wasn't able to make it either. So my water was broken at 2:44 a.m. I then went into the tub, sat on my knees with my hands holding onto the bar in front of me to brace myself for the contractions and Paul sprayed water on my back where the tailbone is. That was the only way that felt good in the tub, lying down did not feel good at all. I got out of the tub and contractions started coming even stronger, I had to lean into Paul while standing and hold onto him. It felt as though I couldn't grab onto him tight enough, I kept grabbing all over, we went and got the nurse and asked her to check me. About half an hour after getting my water broken I was at 8 centimeters. And then after continuing effective contractions and feeling as though I needed to go to the bathroom and nothing happening she came in and asked if I was feeling any pressure, I replied I don't know. But I told her about needing to go to the bathroom. Then my contractions kept getting harder to tolerate I was screaming and finding it hard to move. She asked me to get up on the bed so that she could check me. And I was at a TEN, less than five minutes after being at Eight! Then the urge to PUSH was there, and she told me DON'T PUSH! What, don't push! Boy do I wish that she had been joking that was way to hard to attempt to breathe through and not push it out. And to breathe I didn't think that I would be able to, I think that I even told them that "I can't". The doctor came in after three contractions with the urge to push, and they words okay you can push now. He reminded me to push...."I AM". It took maybe three or four pushes with the contractions and the baby's head was out. The head of course was more noticeable then the shoulders and I couldn't even really feel the body. The placenta was nothing, after me it came out with ease. I went all natural, no medication at all, no episiotomy this time! My first one without it. And I only needed one little stitch.
Paul was a great support, He told me that I could do this. I needed to keep hearing that I told him. He never left me while having contractions and helped me to get through all of them.
Kacen Aaron Bagley was born at 3:34 a.m. on Sunday October 22, 2006. He weighed 8 lbs. 5 oz and was 20 inches long. His head was 35.5 centimeters and he has hair! more than Abbi, less than Alona but it is dark. He eats okay, there is more sleeping than eating going on though. His awake pattern is frustrating, he is awake from 8 p.m. until 2 a.m. We only have medicaid at the moment, and they do not cover circumcisions, because it is cosmetic. So we have to go see a pediatrician and pay $240 up front to get it done. That is a little stressful.
Marta came to the hospital about 15 minutes after he was born and Kelly came a little after five. We they all went to give him a bath, and I came in after and rubbed him down with lotion and combed his hair.
Ruth brought the girls to visit at the hospital yesterday at about three. Alona was happy and excited, Abbi was so excited about the baby and kept repeating the word. Though Abbi wouldn't come near me. Alona was about the same after Abbi was born though it just must be that age group.

The clothes that we brought with us said 0-3 mos. I put them on him and they drown him so bad. When we got home I put a premie outfit on him and that was still too big.
Our visitors while in the hospital: Crystal (my sister), Sue Chance, Melanie and Bruce (Papa Kelly's sister) and of course Papa, Grandma Wood, Grandma Ruthie and Kacen's big sisters.

19 October, 2006

Update

okay so I have pictures, but I am not able to post them. Our internet is still not operational, I am using Paul's laptop right now on a wireless connection. We are moved in and almost all set up. It worked out pretty good with the move. We had enough help moving out and plenty getting our stuff in. Though it took a week to unpack.
I had a dotors appointment on Wednesday, the doctor said that I am 90 percent effaced and 3 plus centimeters(so almost four) my doctor thinks that I will have Kacen before my appointment next week. Who knows, I feel that he is being very stubborn. Well I gotta go it is raining on his laptop, not a good thing.

10 October, 2006

Little helpers

So this worked for awhile, I gave them each a marker to color on the boxes while I was packing it. I did this during our last move when it was just Alona and she did great. But Abbi, she is a fruit..she opened up the box and started coloring on the items on the inside. Her Elmo toothbrush is decorative.

Alona wanted to help clean. She got tired of cleaning the cupboards and didn't want to clean the outside of the stove like we had asked her to. So she went right ahead and started to clean the inside, and then of course Abbi wanted to get in it. Sure it looks cute and is definitely amusing...but not a good idea.
I am glad that we should have help tomorrow. I attempted to pack more today, every time that I would put something into the box Abbi would take it out just as fast. They both did not want to sleep tonight, after giving Alona many chances to get her pajamas on and her refusing, I put her to bed. She sat in her room crying, I asked her if she needed to go to the bathroom. No, she replied, "I want my pajamas!"

09 October, 2006

Packin it up

So it is getting there slowly but surely we are packin up. Here are about all of the boxes that we have packed up so far. Paul says the room is five boxes high. All of the beds except for Kacen's are disassembled, we were able to get the beds taken apart yesterday while the girls went to a neighbors house. Of course I didn't help much with that part, but it was so nice to be able to pack without little hands taking things out and wanting to play with everything. We have a little more to pack and the swingset still needs to be taken apart.Even with moving and packing, dishes and laundry seem to still never end. One of life's things that just does that I guess. Both girls are sleeping on their mattresses for the time being. They were fun to listen to last night. They kept talking for about an hour and a half before they actually fell asleep. Alona was the only one that was actually saying much of anything that you could understand though. It was cute.

There are atleast two people that said they would come and help. It should all work out. We have four hours set aside to put everything in the truck and clean our current apartment and then we called ahead to our new ward and they said that they would come and help us unload, hopefully some will be willing to help us unpack and set up a little too. Friday I will drive back up here to be here when the carpet cleaners come between eleven and one o'clock and then the property manager should be here at 2:30 to inspect the place. Hopefully it is all up to par, we have paid out enough money already. I really do not wish to dish out any more.

We have almost everything set up for moving. We will have internet once again on the 18th, so from probably tomorrow until a week from wednesday there will be no internet for us. We will have to pay for sewer and garbage, that will be a first.

Well I gotta go take care of the girls and pack more....

04 October, 2006

It has begun!

Kacen is head down and floating in my pelvis. When my doctor reached up there to push on him he could feel his head and it moved just the slightest, so that's why he's floating. He's not stuck there. I am 80 percent effaced and he says that I am a dilated at a tight two. I am measuring at 38 centimeters, a bit big for being 36 weeks and three days along. So the process of me going into labor has begun, though it could be from tomorrow up to three or so more weeks all depending.

02 October, 2006

Pet Rock

Alona brought home a rock from Grandma's yesterday. She has been wanting to make a pet rock with every rock that she finds and this one was it. I asked Paul to help her and got out the hot glue gun. Paul did the glue but let her sprinkle on glitter for hair. She picked out what the nose was, a purple fuzzy. And she decided where everything went. She is very happy with her pet and I am glad that Paul participated even though he was running late for work.